India is believed to be a male-dominated country where every society is patriarchal in nature. Society believes that men have been dominating women forever. Even after decades have passed to an extent we can still find the fact in existence. But when it comes to law is India really male dominating country?
Gender Equality
When we say or talk about gender equality all we consider is equality for women.. Crime against men or equality for men is not something in common, that we get to see or read on a regular note. Not so surprising but most of the time men refuse to come up about it. Even Indian laws are not so supportive regarding crime against men. Thus, such matters remain unreported and unsupported.
We often raise voices for the equality of women and I totally stand for it. all these we forget that men can be victims of sexual abuse too. Indian legislation has neglected the fact that men too can be a victim of sexual violence and assault And if we talk about equality then does equality really exist? For example- We have seats reserved for ladies on a public bus, what about a man who might be suffering from a high fever and needs a seat immediately. We stand together if injustice has been done to a woman but none comes forward when the same has been done to men. I question again “Is India really a male-dominated society”?
While talking about law, then Section 375 of IPC deals with rape and legal provisions against it but mentions nothing against men. Nonetheless, it impersonates that if a rape has been done then the woman is the victim and men is the culprit. Also, Section 354 A, 354 B, 354 C, and 354 D, dealing with sexual harassment, stalking, undressing, voyeurism, etc accept women as a victim and men as perpetrators.
There is a Section 377 of the IPC that deals with crime against men but that too is stultified as it only incorporates penile sexual intercourse and thus non-penile abuse victims are not presented before the law.
So, when we talk about gender equality we need to focus on the term ‘equality’. It’s high time now that we actually need to stand up for men and their rights. We can say that there are not many cases related to crime against men. The truth is there are not many people coming up to report the cases which is a harsh reality for many nations. The Indian people actually need to change the notion “men don’t cry”. They do but they don’t show up due to the mindset we have toward men. It would be quite unnatural for us if a man comes up and tells us that he has faced some kind of undesired sexual attitude from a person of the opposite gender.
Common Crime against Men-
Not very amusing to say, but yes men too can be rape victims where the perpetrator can be of the opposite gender or of the same gender too. But due to a lack of provisions in Indian legislation, men fear coming up and reporting and also they fear that they will be humiliated in society thus they prefer to stay quiet.
In many parts of the country, men are forced into marriage and they could not deny it as they are threatened with death. Might sound surprising, but this is the scenario of the present world. Innocent men are usually targeted and they are trapped for the rest of their life as they are forced to marry a girl they hardly know and then pressurised to look after her.
Domestic Violence
Who said that only female has to face domestic violence in their life. Men too can face domestic violence and they do face this in their day-to-day life. It is just that we stand up and fight for the wrong done to women and the same goes neglected for men. A number of domestic violence keep happening to a man around us which we don’t even realize.
False dowry cases
This is the most critical situation these days. Law takes strict actions against the one taking or supporting dowry. This was one of the best things done until and unless women started misusing the law in their favor. Women these days often register false dowry cases to threaten their husband and their family and also to get benefits of their marital life. The sad part is there are rare cases where a man can prove his innocence and mostly is found guilty despite doing nothing. Though, the law in many states has made changes to verify whether a man is accused in such cases.
False rape and other charges
Usually, in rape cases, women are considered to be the victim and there are high chances of women getting the case in favor. If a woman reports a rape case, the culprit will immediately be taken into custody and will anyhow be looked down upon in society as Indian people stands for rape victims. Taking advantage of the strong feminism movement, there are women who report false rape cases intending to take revenge or any such grudges, etc. and thus many innocent men have to face punishment for things they did not do. Also, their whole life is a taint. Some even prefer to end up with their life.
MEN ARE SILENT- WHY?
I, have repeatedly mentioned that cases related to crime against men stay unreported and unregistered most of the time. Men usually do not come forward to fight for their justice. Have we ever wondered why? Let us know some of the reasons why men suffer silently:-
- The prior reason is that they feel ashamed and thus do not report the cases.
- Even if somehow they manage the fortitude against the wrong done to them, then comes the family who pressurizes the victim to stay quiet because they are men and cannot portray themselves as weak.
- Then what about laws in India? Are they in support of male victims? The law which is made to safeguard the interest of women can be used to destroy the life of an innocent man by claiming false charges towards men.
These are some of the reasons why men prefer to stay quiet. Forget society, even the law which is said to be equal for all is not equal for men and women. Thus, to live a life of respect and stay away from court matters which will eventually end up in favor of women, men prefer to stay silent.
STAND FOR MEN TOO
Usually, men do not show up or come forward as they fear rejection and humiliation. Also, they are pretty aware of the fact that they have to face a lot of judgments and in the end, no one will believe them. Rather will be considered as the one making stories. The typical mindset we have for men has made disclosing facts even to families a very difficult task.
Well, in such a situation what can we do is follow some simple steps:
- Listen to what they say because listening doesn’t cost but opening up needs a lot of guts. You can make them feel that they matter by listening to their problems.
- Making them believe that you believe them is all you can do. They need justice too.
- You can express your concern toward them which will eventually make them feel better.
- You can help them by providing appropriate resources which can be difficult for them to reach.
These are the simple and the easiest thing one can do to make a man fighting for justice feel better. Even if he is not fighting for justice he will have the guts to open up and live a life of dignity. Equality is for all and each and everyone should get it.
CONCLUSION
Everyone is equal in the eyes of law and thus deserves to be treated equally. The stereotypical attitude towards the masculine gender needs to change. Men are not supposed to be weak but might fall weak at some point in time. They need listeners too. They cannot be strong all the time and it’s not that all the wrong done in a society is done by a man. Society sometimes needs to support a man just like they support a woman when it comes to justice. Gender equality means equality for all and not just for women. People need to get that straight in their minds and the world will be a better place to live in. Let, the true motive for the gender equality come into force.
























